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I'm born in Canada, raised in Canada, 100% pure Canadian. Or am I?

DNA Journey
Sep 17, 2017
2 min read

My mother is from Hong Kong. And as far I know, so are her parents. My father is from China. I never got the chance to meet his parents, but I'm pretty sure they're from China, too. Growing up, I followed a lot of chinese traditions; learning 4-word phrases that have significant stories that share life lessons, how to properly pour tea for people and what it means if you offer tea for elders and seniors, how to wear 旗袍, having celebrations on important dates, what symbolizes good luck, etc.

But I'm Canadian. Right?

I love to eat Korean foods. The beef and pork really absorbs the marination and when you grill it, there's a satisfying sizzle. There are many small appetizer dishes that have a sour, spicy, sweet or fresh taste that opens up our taste buds. The chicken hotpot broths are amazing. It's starts off with a base and then you can kimchi, green onions, potatoes, bean sprouts, and so much more. The stone-baked bibimbap are so simple yet so beautiful and tasty.

But I'm Canadian. Right?

I love Japanese kimono. They have really pretty designs that are really bright and the colours contrast and compliment each other. Additionally, the fabric is really soft and comfortable to walk around in. I like how there is a big box-shape bow at the back of the belt to secure the dress. The long flaps of sleeves creates a dramatic effect when they have to enter a banquet room; it makes them look important and elegant.

It feels as if people are always judging me because of my appearance and when I tell them that I'm Canadian, they don't believe me. I'm not going to change how I look or the things I do to prove to others that I'm Canadian. I'm a mix from different countries. Just because I'm Canadian, it doesn't mean that I don't have other nationalities that make me who I am. I'm not ashamed that I live in Canada, or that I have Asian roots. It's more important to embrace each culture's diversity and try new traditional practices that my ancestors believed in.